The breaking of the glass at the end of the ceremony is a Jewish tradition that is rapidly being "borrowed" by non-Jews because of its meaningful and festive nature. (It's so much fun to yell "Congratulations!" or Mazel Tov" at the end of a wedding ceremony!) Depending on whom you ask, the breaking of the wineglass is, among other things: a symbol of the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem; a representation of the fragility of human relationships; and a reminder that marriage changes the lives of individuals forever.

The glass is not stepped on until after the pronouncement. It can be preceded by one of the following wordings/explanations or it can simply be done without additional words. Note: in weddings where some guests are not familiar with the custom of shouting Mazel Tov or Congratulations after the glass is broken, then that should be indicated by the officiant prior to the breakage.

There's no law putting the man's foot to the task. If you're game, Bride and Groom can break the glass together with one swift kick in unison.

Optional Wording
1.        May your bond of love be as difficult to break as it would be to put together the pieces of this glass.

2.        Bride and Groom, our prayer today is that your lives together would be longer than it would take to fit these broken pieces of glass back together again. Remember that unconditional love is a rare commodity. Now that you have discovered it, treasure it with every breath inside of you. Then, if necessary, defend it until your very last.

3.        The breaking of the glass at the end of a wedding ceremony serves to remind of two very important aspects of a marriage.  The Bride and Groom - and everyone - should consider these marriage vows as an irrevocable act - just as permanent and final as the breaking of this glass is unchangeable. But the breaking of the glass also is a warning of the frailty of a marriage. That sometimes a single thoughtless act, breech of trust, or infidelity can damage a marriage in ways that are very difficult to undo--just as it would be so difficult to undo the breaking of this glass. Groom and Bride, knowing that this marriage is permanent, you should strive to show each other the love and respect befitting your spouse and love of your life.

4.        Bride and Groom let not your love be frail, but strong. When outside forces threaten to come between you, remember to turn toward one another and not away. Treat each other with kindness and respect, for love not nourished, is easily shattered.

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